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Why is my baby squirming and pulling while breastfeeding?

Understanding Your Baby’s Squirming During Breastfeeding
Breastfeeding can be a beautiful bonding experience, but it can also come with its challenges, particularly when your baby starts to squirm and pull at the breast. This behavior, while sometimes concerning for new parents, is often quite normal and can be attributed to several factors.
Natural Developmental Behavior
Firstly, it’s important to recognize that squirming is a common behavior among babies, especially during certain developmental phases. As they grow, babies become more aware of their surroundings and may exhibit increased movement while nursing. This can be a natural reaction to their curiosity and desire to explore their environment.
Milk Flow and Letdown Issues
One of the most frequent reasons for a baby to squirm is related to the milk flow. If a mother experiences a delayed letdown, the baby may become frustrated when they suck but do not receive milk immediately. This frustration can manifest as squirming, pulling, or even grunting as the baby tries to stimulate milk flow. Ensuring a comfortable position and being relaxed can help facilitate a smoother feeding experience.
Physical Discomfort
Physical discomfort can also play a significant role in a baby’s behavior while breastfeeding. For instance, if a baby has gas or an upset stomach, they may squirm due to discomfort. This is particularly common in younger infants whose digestive systems are still maturing. Additionally, conditions like ear infections can cause pain when lying down, leading to fussiness during feeding.
Growth Spurts and Increased Demand
During growth spurts, babies often exhibit increased hunger and may nurse more frequently. This can lead to more squirming as they attempt to signal their need for more milk. They might push against the breast or pull at the nipple in an effort to encourage the mother’s body to produce more milk.
Teething and Gum Discomfort
Teething can also cause significant discomfort for babies, leading them to squirm while nursing. The inflammation in their gums can make sucking painful, prompting them to pull away or fidget during feeds. Offering a cold teething ring before nursing can sometimes help alleviate this discomfort.
Positioning and Stability
Lastly, the baby’s position during breastfeeding can affect their comfort level. Babies need a sense of stability while feeding, and if they feel insecure or uncomfortable, they may squirm or unlatch frequently. Experimenting with different breastfeeding positions can help find one that provides the baby with the most comfort and stability.
Conclusion
In summary, while it can be concerning to see your baby squirm and pull during breastfeeding, this behavior is often normal and can stem from a variety of factors including developmental changes, milk flow issues, physical discomfort, growth spurts, teething, and positioning. Understanding these reasons can help parents respond appropriately and create a more comfortable feeding experience for both themselves and their baby. If concerns persist, consulting with a pediatrician or a lactation consultant can provide additional support and guidance.

What is the 3 month breastfeeding crisis?

As you may have read in my other blog about a baby’s breastfeeding crisis, a breastfeeding crisis, sometimes called a growth spurt, is a common phrase used to describe a phase where mothers may encounter significant breastfeeding challenges, typically related to an increase in milk demand from the baby.

Why is my baby squirming so much while nursing?

If nursing is not the calm bonding you were expecting, don’t worry. Some squirming is normal, but if your baby is especially active and squirmy during feedings, it could indicate that they are frustrated.

Why is my baby flailing around while breastfeeding?

Hitting and flailing during nursing is simply a developmental phase of infancy. Babies flail, hit, and smack during nursing sessions for a variety of reasons. Your baby needs attention. Your baby might hit during a nursing session simply to get your attention.

Why is my baby twisting and pulling while breastfeeding?

Why do babies push and strain when breastfeeding? Pushing and straining is normal and is part of the baby’s learning process. At birth, babies have a gastrocolic reflex that allows them to eat and have a bowel movement within a few seconds. That is why when they start to suckle, you hear their tummy moving.

Why does my baby keep pulling and unlatching?

Babies can pull off the breast for a variety of reasons. This can occur because of high/fast flow of milk, or low flow that the baby is frustrated with.

When to worry about increased fetal movement?

Fetal movements in utero are an expression of fetal well-being. However, a sudden increase of fetal movements is a sign of acute fetal distress, such as in cases of cord complications or abruptio placentae.

What are silent reflux in babies’ symptoms?

If your infant or child experiences any of the following symptoms, timely evaluation is critical.

  • Chronic cough.
  • Hoarseness.
  • Noisy breathing (stridor)
  • Croup.
  • Reactive airway disease (asthma)
  • Sleep disordered breathing (SDB)
  • Spit up.
  • Feeding difficulty.

How to tell if baby is comfort nursing?

Your baby is only nursing for comfort nursing when you see these signs:

  1. Flutter sucking, slowing down, stop sucking, or making little sucks.
  2. Still and looking into space while nursing.
  3. Holding the nipple in their mouth but not sucking for milk.
  4. Rooting and sucking lightly at the breast.
  5. Arching and grabbing ears.

Why does my baby kick legs and move arms while breastfeeding?

A baby that feels like they are unstable will do many things that make latch harder – flailing their arms, “breast boxing”, crying, head bopping, shaking their head back and forth, kicking their legs, arching away, and so much more.

Why is my baby grunting and pulling away while breastfeeding?

Some mothers have a strong milk ejection reflex. This means that your baby can get a lot of milk with each suck. Your newborn may find this amount of milk hard to handle. This may make your baby pull away from the breast when the flow is strongest.

Natasha Lunn

Tash is an IBCLC and Business Coach helping fellow IBCLCs create fun, profitable businesses that are more than just an expensive hobby. Before becoming an IBCLC and starting her private practice - The Boobala, Tash graduated as an Osteopath in 2008 and has been in Private Practice in South West Sydney. She was also a volunteer Breastfeeding Counsellor and Community Educator with the Australian Breastfeeding Association for 6 years. Through her business, Your Lactation Biz, Tash coaches and creates products to help new and seasoned IBCLCs build businesses that suit their personality and lifestyle.

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