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Why is my baby so fussy at night while breastfeeding?

Understanding Nighttime Fussiness in Breastfeeding Babies
Nighttime fussiness in babies, particularly during breastfeeding, is a common concern for many new parents. This phenomenon can be attributed to several factors, ranging from natural developmental stages to specific feeding behaviors.
Cluster Feeding and Developmental Phases
One of the primary reasons babies tend to be fussy at night is cluster feeding, a behavior where infants nurse more frequently during certain times of the day, often in the evening. This is particularly prevalent in the early months of life. During these periods, babies may seem to be constantly nursing, which can be exhausting for parents. This behavior is not only normal but also serves a purpose: it helps to increase the mother’s milk supply in response to the baby’s growing needs.
Additionally, many parents experience what is often referred to as the “witching hour,” a time in the late afternoon or evening when babies become particularly fussy. This can be attributed to a combination of factors, including fatigue from the day’s stimulation and the natural rhythms of infant behavior.
Physical Discomfort and Feeding Challenges
Fussiness during breastfeeding can also stem from physical discomfort. Babies may experience issues such as gas or reflux, which can make feeding uncomfortable. If a baby is fussy at the breast, it might be due to choking or sputtering while nursing, indicating that they are struggling with the flow of milk or are experiencing discomfort.
Moreover, some babies may become frustrated if they are not able to latch properly or if they feel they are not getting enough milk. This can lead to crying and fussiness, even if they are still hungry.
Soothing Strategies for Parents
To help manage nighttime fussiness, parents can try various soothing techniques. Creating a calm environment can be beneficial; dimming the lights and reducing noise can help soothe a fussy baby. Additionally, ensuring that the baby is in a comfortable position while breastfeeding can alleviate some of the discomfort that leads to fussiness.
It’s also important for parents to remember that this phase is temporary. Many babies outgrow their evening fussiness as they develop and their feeding patterns stabilize.
In conclusion, while nighttime fussiness during breastfeeding can be challenging, understanding the underlying reasons—such as cluster feeding, physical discomfort, and developmental stages—can help parents navigate this period with more confidence and ease.

Why does my baby pull away and cry while breastfeeding?

If you are about to feed and visitors arrive, or your phone is not next to you, or you are anticipating pain or a struggle feeding, you don’t release the hormone oxytocin as quickly so the let-down is slower and the baby can get frustrated and pull away. This often leads to an upset baby and it can upset you too.

Why does my baby keep unlatching and crying?

Babies who are having trouble getting a full meal might unlatch and fuss or cry. They may also seem to “shut down” at the breast. Either way, if you have any suspicions that your baby isn’t getting enough to eat, you should speak to your doctor or a lactation consultant as soon as possible.

Why is my baby squirming and pulling while breastfeeding?

Why do babies push and strain when breastfeeding? Pushing and straining is normal and is part of the baby’s learning process. At birth, babies have a gastrocolic reflex that allows them to eat and have a bowel movement within a few seconds. That is why when they start to suckle, you hear their tummy moving.

What is the 3 month breastfeeding crisis?

These increases occur around the same time for all babies, hence the term “3-months breastfeeding crisis”. This crisis is the most well-known because it is the most challenging for mothers. One reason is that this crisis, unlike others you may experience before, can last up to a month.

What is the witching hour for breastfeeding?

This tricky time of day often happens between 5 pm and midnight. This is often when you are most tired, and not at your best. Younger babies may want to cluster feed or they may refuse the breast altogether. Many children, regardless of age, may not want to go to sleep even when they are tired!

Why is my baby so frustrated breastfeeding at night?

If your baby is more fussy and seems to resist breastfeeding more in the evening, that’s actually pretty normal. A lot of babies are more fussy in the evening. Sometimes it comes down to something that the mother is eating at a certain time each day, so it’s in the mother’s milk at a certain time each day.

Why is my baby aggressively latching and unlatching?

Oversupply and overactive milk ejection reflex are two reasons your baby may pop on and off your breast, while breastfeeding when there is too much milk coming at them too fast or faster than they can handle. Your baby may come off your breast choking and sputtering or need to burp more often.

How do I stop my baby from comfort breastfeeding at night?

Before your baby completely falls asleep while on your breast, simply slide your finger in his mouth, releasing his grip on your nipple, and then gently close his mouth. This discourages your baby from wanting to suck.

Do babies grow out of comfort nursing?

Usually, babies will grow out of comfort nursing as they reach the toddler stage.

How to tell if baby is waking from hunger or habit?

It all depends on your specific baby. To determine if your baby is waking due to hunger, consider the duration of their longest sleep stretch. If they’ve slept for 5+ hours but now wake every 2 hours, it’s likely not hunger-related, and other soothing methods can be employed.

Natasha Lunn

Tash is an IBCLC and Business Coach helping fellow IBCLCs create fun, profitable businesses that are more than just an expensive hobby. Before becoming an IBCLC and starting her private practice - The Boobala, Tash graduated as an Osteopath in 2008 and has been in Private Practice in South West Sydney. She was also a volunteer Breastfeeding Counsellor and Community Educator with the Australian Breastfeeding Association for 6 years. Through her business, Your Lactation Biz, Tash coaches and creates products to help new and seasoned IBCLCs build businesses that suit their personality and lifestyle.

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