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How to stay awake feeding a baby?

Staying Awake While Feeding a Baby: Tips and Strategies
Feeding a baby, especially during those late-night hours, can be a challenging task for new parents. The combination of a sleepy baby and the natural fatigue that comes with caring for an infant can lead to difficulties in ensuring that the baby gets enough nutrition. Here are some effective strategies to help parents stay awake and engaged during feeding sessions.
Understanding the Sleepy Baby Phenomenon
Newborns are notorious for falling asleep while feeding. This can be problematic, as it may prevent them from consuming the necessary amount of milk, which is crucial for their growth and development. Parents often find themselves in a tug-of-war between the need to keep their baby awake and their own exhaustion.
Techniques to Keep Your Baby Awake
1. Change Positions: Switching the baby’s position can stimulate them and help keep them alert. For instance, holding the baby upright or changing from a cradle hold to a football hold can make a difference.
2. Gentle Stimulation: Lightly rubbing the baby’s back or feet can help keep them awake. Some parents find that gently tickling their baby’s chin or cheeks can also encourage them to stay engaged during feeding.
3. Cool Environment: Keeping the room slightly cooler can help prevent the baby from getting too cozy and falling asleep. A well-lit environment can also help keep both the parent and baby alert.
4. Frequent Burping: Taking breaks to burp the baby can not only help with digestion but also serve as a moment to re-engage the baby. This can be a good time to talk or sing to them, which can stimulate their senses.
5. Timing and Routine: Establishing a feeding routine can help both the parent and baby know what to expect. Feeding when the baby is slightly more awake, such as after a diaper change, can also be beneficial.
Staying Awake as a Parent
While keeping the baby awake is essential, parents also need to manage their own fatigue. Here are some tips for staying alert during those nighttime feedings:
– Hydration and Nutrition: Staying hydrated and having a light snack before feeding can help maintain energy levels. Foods rich in protein and complex carbohydrates can provide sustained energy.
– Engage Your Senses: Listening to music or a podcast can help keep your mind active. Some parents find that having a conversation with their partner or even talking to the baby can help them stay awake.
– Movement: If possible, try to stand or gently sway while feeding. This physical activity can help keep you alert and engaged.
– Limit Distractions: While it might be tempting to scroll through your phone, focusing on the feeding process can help keep both you and your baby awake and attentive.
Conclusion
Feeding a baby, particularly during those sleepy nighttime hours, requires a balance of keeping the baby awake and managing parental fatigue. By employing various techniques to stimulate the baby and maintaining personal alertness, parents can ensure that their little ones receive the nutrition they need while also taking care of themselves. With patience and practice, feeding time can become a more manageable and enjoyable experience for both parent and child.

How to stay awake while feeding a baby?

If a middle-of-the-night feeding has you feeling tired, then try drinking a tall glass of water to keep you cool and awake. Also, a small plate of snacks are a great way to keep your metabolism going. Play games. Put your brain to work and stay engaged by playing some smartphone games with your friends.

How can I feed my baby without falling asleep?

Tips on Feeding a Sleepy Baby

  • Feed baby in a nappy only.
  • Get a wet flannel out to further wake baby up if they fall asleep quickly on the breast.
  • Tickle their cheek or chin to try and stimulate their suck reflex.
  • Let the baby fall away from your breast a little (ie threaten to take them away from the breast).

How do I stop my baby from comfort feeding at night?

Here’s how: Reduce the time your child feeds by 2-5 minutes every second night. For example, if your child usually feeds for 10 minutes, feed for 8 minutes for 2 nights, then 6 minutes for the next 2 nights, and so on. Re-settle your child after each shortened feed with the settling techniques of your choice.

How do I break the habit of feeding my baby to sleep?

Change the routine.
Stopping the pre-nap or pre-bedtime feed doesn’t mean getting rid of it altogether. Offer them a feed earlier than normal, then give them time to play or have a bath in between the feed and sleep. Top tip: Your baby’s sleep pattern cannot be taught; it will develop in its own time, so be patient.

How do I stop my newborn from falling asleep while feeding?

Use Gentle Stimulation
Sitting your baby up and giving them a gentle back rub can also help to wake them up and it gives them the opportunity to expel any trapped wind that they may have.

What if baby doesn’t burp and falls asleep?

What to do in this case? A: If your baby falls asleep before burping, gently try to burp them while they are still drowsy. If unsuccessful, it’s generally okay to let them sleep without forcing a burp. Ensure a comfortable sleeping position to prevent discomfort, and try burping after the next feeding.

How do I stop feeding to sleep gently?

Before your baby completely falls asleep while on your breast, simply slide your finger in his mouth, releasing his grip on your nipple, and then gently close his mouth. This discourages your baby from wanting to suck.

Why do I feel sleepy while feeding my baby?

While feeding your baby in a quiet environment, you will feel relaxed and fall asleep. Your body releases a hormone called oxytocin. It is also known as love hormone and it relaxes your mind. Your body also releases a hormone called prolactin, which is known as a soothing hormone.

At what point do you stop waking a baby to feed?

If they don’t wake on their own, go ahead and wake them for a feeding. This means that by 10-11 weeks, babies who are eating full feedings every 2.5 – 3.5 hours all day long, showing steady weight gain, and staying on their growth curve can sleep 11-12 hours at night without needing you to wake them for a feeding.

How to keep a newborn awake after feeding?

Here are some tips to keep a baby awake while being held upright after daytime feedings: Turn your baby away from you and walk around the house, look in the mirror, or show them toys.

Natasha Lunn

Tash is an IBCLC and Business Coach helping fellow IBCLCs create fun, profitable businesses that are more than just an expensive hobby. Before becoming an IBCLC and starting her private practice - The Boobala, Tash graduated as an Osteopath in 2008 and has been in Private Practice in South West Sydney. She was also a volunteer Breastfeeding Counsellor and Community Educator with the Australian Breastfeeding Association for 6 years. Through her business, Your Lactation Biz, Tash coaches and creates products to help new and seasoned IBCLCs build businesses that suit their personality and lifestyle.

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