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How do I keep my newborn awake for feeding?

Keeping Your Newborn Awake for Feeding: A Guide for New Parents
As a new parent, one of the challenges you may face is keeping your newborn awake during feeding times. Newborns often have a natural tendency to doze off, which can make it difficult to ensure they are getting the nutrition they need. Here are some effective strategies to help you keep your little one alert and engaged during feedings.
Understanding Newborn Sleep Patterns
Newborns typically sleep a lot, often up to 16-18 hours a day, and they may not always show clear hunger cues. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, it’s important to wake your baby for feedings if they sleep longer than four to five hours, especially in the first two weeks of life. This is crucial for their growth and development, as they need frequent feedings to gain weight and thrive.
Creating a Stimulating Environment
To keep your baby awake during feedings, consider creating a stimulating environment. Skin-to-skin contact is particularly effective; holding your baby close can encourage them to suck and stay alert. Additionally, undressing your baby down to their diaper can help them feel cooler and more awake, making them less likely to fall asleep while feeding.
Engaging Their Senses
Engaging your baby’s senses can also help keep them awake. Gentle stimulation, such as softly talking to them or singing, can capture their attention. You might also try gently tickling their feet or hands to encourage them to stay awake. If you have older siblings, involving them in the feeding process can add an element of fun and distraction that keeps the baby alert.
Timing is Key
Feeding your baby at the right times can make a significant difference. Observing your baby’s natural patterns of sleep and hunger can help you identify when they are most alert. Aim to feed them shortly after they wake up or well before they are ready to sleep again. This timing can help ensure that they are more engaged during the feeding.
Utilizing Feeding Techniques
Certain feeding techniques can also help maintain your baby’s alertness. For breastfeeding, consider using breast compressions to encourage sucking and keep them actively feeding. If you are bottle-feeding, ensure that the nipple flow is appropriate; a faster flow can sometimes help keep a sleepy baby engaged.
Incorporating Play and Movement
Sometimes, a little break from feeding can help re-energize your baby. A quick bath or gentle massage can wake them up effectively. Alternatively, a few minutes of playful interaction can stimulate their senses and make them more alert for feeding.
Conclusion
Keeping your newborn awake for feeding can be a challenge, but with the right strategies, you can ensure they get the nutrition they need. By creating a stimulating environment, engaging their senses, and timing feedings appropriately, you can help your little one stay alert and enjoy their feeding sessions. Remember, every baby is different, so it may take some experimentation to find what works best for your child.

How to break the feeding to sleep habit?

Change the routine.
Stopping the pre-nap or pre-bedtime feed doesn’t mean getting rid of it altogether. Offer them a feed earlier than normal, then give them time to play or have a bath in between the feed and sleep. Top tip: Your baby’s sleep pattern cannot be taught; it will develop in its own time, so be patient.

How do I get my newborn to sleep without feeding?

The routine could consist of:

  1. having a bath.
  2. changing into night clothes and a fresh nappy.
  3. putting them to bed.
  4. reading a bedtime story (see more in Baby and toddler play ideas)
  5. dimming the lights in the room to create a calm atmosphere.
  6. giving a goodnight kiss and cuddle.

How do I get my newborn to sleep to feed?

How to wake a newborn to feed

  1. Feed when your baby is in an active sleep period — or REM sleep.
  2. Slowly unswaddle him.
  3. Change his diaper while you sing a song or stroke his hands and the soles of his feet.
  4. Hold your baby upright, which usually causes newborns to open their eyes.
  5. Dim the lights.
  6. Be sociable.

What to do if newborn is not waking up for feedings?

It is not necessary to wake most older newborns up to eat. However, those younger than 1 month old or so may not wake up when they feel hungry. Babies younger than 4 weeks old should not go longer than 4–5 hours without food. To wake a baby up to eat, try brushing the side of their cheek.

Is it okay to let a newborn sleep 5 hours?

Others suggest waking to feed during the first five to six weeks if your baby sleeps longer than five hours at a time. Usually, babies younger than 6 months wake up every three to four hours because they’re hungry, so the question of whether to wake them (and lose precious rest yourself) may not be a concern.

How to keep your newborn awake during feeding?

How to keep your baby awake

  1. Feed her in a lighted room – darkness sends a signal to their body that it’s time to sleep.
  2. Keep things cool – unwrap the swaddle or take her out of her sleep sack or pajamas before feeding.
  3. Don’t be afraid to move – move your baby around and burp her to keep her alert.

How do I stop my baby from falling asleep while feeding?

Tips on Feeding a Sleepy Baby

  • Feed baby in a nappy only.
  • Get a wet flannel out to further wake baby up if they fall asleep quickly on the breast.
  • Tickle their cheek or chin to try and stimulate their suck reflex.
  • Let the baby fall away from your breast a little (ie threaten to take them away from the breast).

What if baby doesn’t burp and falls asleep?

What to do in this case? A: If your baby falls asleep before burping, gently try to burp them while they are still drowsy. If unsuccessful, it’s generally okay to let them sleep without forcing a burp. Ensure a comfortable sleeping position to prevent discomfort, and try burping after the next feeding.

What to do when a newborn won’t wake up for feeding?

Gently massage your baby’s chest, shoulders, arms and legs and up and down the spine. Gently stroke your baby from nose to chin and around the mouth. Hold your baby on your lap facing you. Support her head and gently lower her down and up like she’s doing a “sit-up” Do this a few times.

What to do when newborn is too sleepy to eat?

1 Start by unwrapping your baby from their blanket and pulling their arms out of their shirt. 2 Place your baby between your bare breasts (dad’s bare chest will work too). 3 Gently rub your baby’s back and talk or sing to them to see if you can wake them enough to feed them.

Natasha Lunn

Tash is an IBCLC and Business Coach helping fellow IBCLCs create fun, profitable businesses that are more than just an expensive hobby. Before becoming an IBCLC and starting her private practice - The Boobala, Tash graduated as an Osteopath in 2008 and has been in Private Practice in South West Sydney. She was also a volunteer Breastfeeding Counsellor and Community Educator with the Australian Breastfeeding Association for 6 years. Through her business, Your Lactation Biz, Tash coaches and creates products to help new and seasoned IBCLCs build businesses that suit their personality and lifestyle.

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